Me and this girl started talking in October 2014 we spent a lot of time together we did Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years together. January 2015 she did some suspicious stuff she went out and her phone was "Dead".
Well this week some proof came up that she was talking to her ex boyfriend at the time and I confronted her and after all of this time of denying bc I asked her was she w her recent ex before... She finally admitted it... She crashed there etc and had my number on reject calls that weekend...
So today she sends me a long message asking me to forgive her and to let her know if I can't. Sounds like she is looking for closure.
My friends are telling me to go cold turkey on her and she works w me also so I will run into her on Monday...
Most Helpful Girl
I have been cheated by my two only bfs. First time, I reacted very immaturely. I trashed his car. I was pissed off and yes, at the moment, I felt that vengeance was sweet. But after I did it, the feeling quickly subsided and I felt bad that not only did I have a broken heart, he had a broken truck. He worked hard for it, and even borrowed money to buy it new. And I destroyed it.
I cried cuz it didn't unfuck the other girls, it didn't unbreak my heart, it didn't solve anything. It just created more drama, and not to mention I could've ended up in jail.
That was with my first boyfriend.
My second boyfriend, I loved him very much. I even wanted to propose to him. And we were planning a life together. It turned out he got his ex girlfriend pregnant. It broke me heart yet again. He was very sweet to me, and he seemed to care for me a lot.
This time, I didn't break his car. I didn't do anything but just forget him. And honestly, I feel a lot better.
Sometimes, you think you need vengeance, but in reality, all you need is time.
I won't lie, I did cry a lot. Even though he begged for me to come back with him, I had to fight it everyday to not take him back.
I guess I learned it's just better to walk away. Again, you don't need vengeance nor anymore drama. You need time and space and ultimately peace of mind.
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Most Helpful Guy
Simply move on. If you cared for her once, you have to let go, one way or another. Just let her be happy and learn what it is from your relationship that lead her to cheat on you.0