1) Chemistry - you can tell that after a couple dates, not 3 months
2) Physical clicking / intimacy - we were taking things slow and letting it develop so we had made out but had not had sex. It's 2015 though, she could have initiated... but she seemed to want to go slow.
3) Emotional clicking / the major convos (future, politics, religion, exes and sex)... we had talked the first 3 and were in agreement about those aspects only the other 2 were not really talked about.
Everything seemed normal right up until that phone call so I'm stunned and want to know what to do so I can be a better man in my next relationship / find a way to get things going again with her since I still feel for her (the breakup happened a couple days ago). My gut says do no contact, do my thing, enjoy the NHL playoffs and then in a month or so just send a simple text about a show or a band or hockey or something we had common interest in (which was like a million things)