My ex and I broke up a few months ago and I'm still not over him. I was so in love with him that I'm absolutely heartbroken by the break up. I want to be able to move on with my life but I don't know how. I'm always thinking about him. He was my first real boyfriend so I've never gone through this before. So any suggestions on what I can do to try and get over him would be great!
thanks in advance xo
p. s- I hope this is in the right category, not sure if it should be in the dating/relationships one or not haha
Most Helpful Guy
What's helped me when I was going through the same thing, was going on long walks. It's important to be on your own when you do this. As you walk, you'll pay attention to your surroundings and maybe you'll even get new ideas for things to do in the future. It's like a cleansing for your mind. And when you come home, you'll feel like you got reborn. You need to repeat this for a few times though to get the best effect out of it.
@JohnBhoy94 - He is very right when he says that you need to learn to live by yourself !0
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't try to find someone else so quickly. I would use this time to focus on yourself. My ex was my first boyfriend it took me a while to get over him since we go to the same high school, it was hard but it got easier. I just acted like he didn't exist, because he treated me like dirt and he led me on. You will feel broken and used for some time but just let time take its course and you will be okay. I felt broken, and I felt like I couldn't walk for days, every time I saw his face I just wanted to fall back but I had to stand tall and show him I strong I was. Cut off all contact with him, deleted/blocked his number, moved on with my life and focused on myself. It took me a while to realize that I deserved better. He and I have not spoken for at least a year and two months. It was my first break up but I've healed already and moved on. It is hard but if you let time takes it course it'll work out. Now that I have moved on my ex is slowly trying to come back into my life, and I don't want anything to do with him.1