He feels like he can't make me happy and that he is worthless because he can't fix my anxiety. Making it better and helping me during attacks isn't enough for him... and whenever we argue, if I say something or do something, he will over analyze it and take it out of context. Like this may be the most dramatic example, but I said I feel insecure sometimes with my looks and he said that he must be a bad boyfriend because he can't make me feel beautiful.
We are on the verge of breaking up because of it because I just told him if I make him feel worthless because of my anxiety attacks, there's nothing I can do and I told him to think about it but he said he would and that he just feels bad that he can't make me happy and that he's worthless and an idiot.
I mean I feel guilty because I feel like that's my fault but I don't want to lose hope. help?
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It's not your fault he feels that way, he's insecure. Insecurities are personal and usually exaggerated fears, the problem is you can't fix someone who's insecure, they have to resolve it at a point in their lives when they're ready. Even when a supportive partner urges them to confront their insecurities, it doesn't change anything. This type of person is a nightmare to date.1