My ex and I were really good to each other and it was going perfectly fine, no fights, no problems and she seemed to care for me a lot. One night she tells me to go over and we had a time like we always do we chilled , talked and had sex like normal. I got home and we talked up untill like 3 am like it was our habbit since none of us has the best sleep squedule. then she tells me "Im gonna go out with X friend (girl bets friend) tomorow to buy some things. I said okay i won't bother you.
Next day I talk to her once she was online and she said "hey" I asked how her day went and she just bloqued me no explanation, no fight no anything. I do some reaseach and there was this guy telling her he loves her on facebook so I think she was with the guy so I counted my losses. Then my good friend was like "no bro that guy has a girlfriend and showed me a few pics on his facebook kissing another girl. So I'm really confused on why she left. She shoulve at least said"hey I wanna break up"
I haven't had any clousure from this so its hard for me not to think about it and she won't anwer my messages I won't go to her house cause trhen I'll just look like a stalker. What should I do? and Why do you think she broke up?
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Its a crap situation, I went through similar ish with my ex, who basically stopped talking to me for a week before finally saying he wanted to break up. And I never understood why until we got back together 6 months later.. It wasn't about me, but he was too cowardly to admit he was too scared for our relationship.
My point is, she is scared I imagine, of telling you she doesn't want to be with you & if you wanna know you may have to wait months before getting an answer! I'd suggest you try to let go but being honest I know how hard that can be.. Also, never leave a girls house after sex, its bad form 😛0