I found out my girlfriend cheated on me and it happened a few months ago I found out she went to her exs house and stayed there for a weekend... Da hell!!
She tried to downplay what happened saying they slept in same bed but no touching no kiss no sex...
She then she just said well let her know if I want to forgive her and move on or want to break up... See she likes to be in control and I had it...
So I went cold turkey on her stop replying to her texts and we work together I just don't say anything to her...
Silence speaks volume so she figured I don't want anything to do with her so she writes me a note to park by her tomorrow so she can give me my stuff... Again it's like she wants to feel like she has control of the situation... I just replied trash it and walked away so her face was priceless... No more mister nice guy I did so much stuff for her! She has never seem this side of me before
I'm sorry I'm the best boyfriend but when you cheat plus it's a fresh break up I despise cheating.
Was my reply to her not trash it ok I mean I'm sorry she is so use to me being nice and being in control and getting her way I'm on angry mode with her in disguise
Most Helpful Girl
I don't blame you. No one should ever tolerate being cheated on. Sorry this happened to you! :( I would just ignore her and let her feel stupid for ruining the relationship. (If she has the capacity to feel stupid.) you'll find someone who won't cheat on you.0
Most Helpful Guy
Right on, my brother! I love it, and I'm happy when I see both men and women standing up to the bully control freak and letting them know they have no power of you.
You did the right thing, and she really had no regard for your feelings when she cheated on you, lied to you and then gave you that cold-hearted shit-bag ultimatum, so she's lucky you didn't stick both your middle fingers in her face.
You'll meet someone who respects you much more than that sorry excuse of a person.
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