I found out my girlfriend cheated on me and it happened a few months ago I found out she went to her exs house and stayed there for a weekend... Da hell!!
She tried to downplay what happened saying they slept in same bed but no touching no kiss no sex...
She then she just said well let her know if I want to forgive her and move on or want to break up... See she likes to be in control and I had it...
So I went cold turkey on her stop replying to her texts and we work together I just don't say anything to her...
Silence speaks volume so she figured I don't want anything to do with her so she writes me a note to park by her tomorrow so she can give me my stuff... Again it's like she wants to feel like she has control of the situation... I just replied trash it and walked away so her face was priceless... No more mister nice guy I did so much stuff for her! She has never seem this side of me before
I'm sorry I'm the best boyfriend but when you cheat plus it's a fresh break up I despise cheating.
Was my reply to her not trash it ok I mean I'm sorry she is so use to me being nice and being in control and getting her way I'm on angry mode with her in disguise
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Well as long as it isn't stuff you desperately needed I guess that's ok. Laying in the same bed without sex and stuff is still cheating in my book. She knows what she was doing is wrong. I would say let her feel as horrible as possible about it but don't go outta your way to make her feel bad. Your rejections will do enough damage to her emotionally but from what I notice, cheaters will almost always justify their behavior mentally with some nonsense. It could be something as stupid as "well.. he made me mad and I didn't say anything so having sex with my ex was totally ok!" While you'll use your head and realize it's a completely dumb statement, she'll make it sound like music to her ears.
Forgive her for your own sake, but never take her back. But don't make her feel good at all about what she did. She knows she is cheating but won't admit it to herself which is a huge reason why cheaters tend to repeat their behaviors every partner.0
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