How do you get over someone you are obsessed with?

I thought I was in love with this guy but it turns out to be an obsession and lust. I didn't love him I lusted him.
Now I'm very much aware of my obsession but I'm not over him yet.
Please help.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Keep myself busy and try to find other people.

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What Guys Said 3

  • guess by hanging around with friends... might help u :-)

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    • That might help
      Thank you.

  • Watch porn

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    • Not helping.

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    • Lust bruce banner.
      scarlett johansson had in avengers

    • Sure๐Ÿ˜‚

  • Why did you love him when you don't actually love him?

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    • I mistook obsession for love ๐Ÿ˜”

    • Then you got a serious problem. Even my ex girlfriend is just like you. She mistook lust for love but made many promises about staying with me forever and all. She's just 19. I realised it when she's online dating someone else... Just make sure you really love someone before admitting it. Good luck

What Girls Said 5

  • Remove his entire existence from your life. Block and delete him from phones, social media, all pictures and anything else in relation to him. Focus on friends, hobbies, school, etc.

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    • Already done that it's my head getting in the way.

  • Talk to a counselor! It will help you tremendously if you find right one. I've read that love obsessions are common among adolescents to early 20's

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    • Okay I'll try to find the right one :)

  • I am a bi-serial-dater who rarely gets obsessed over people + always RUNS away first.

    A favourite quote
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    "In order to get over someone, you have to get under someone new"

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    • I seriously love that quote but I can't implement it. I'm a really intense and passionate person. These quickie things don't work.
      by the way lucky you.

    • Perhaps just harness all of your focus into self improvement then.
      Peace + much luck xo

    • Now that's something I should really focus on. I totally agree. Thanks love๐Ÿ˜˜

  • find someone else to obsess over :)

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    • I don't know... he's been in my head for a very long time.

    • I was obsessed with this guy and all did was imagine me with someone else and him being jealous lmfao pathetic but it works

  • I'm in a similar situation.. let me know if you find out haha

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