I last spoke to him last month before he got into the relationship and before I started seeing a guy. He said he'd moved on and didn't have feelings for me anymore but I feel it was a lie to make me give up on him or just to hurt me. I knew he was having a hard time but it didn't seem as bad as me! I was that psycho ex for a while, I must admit. Not long after the break up, he said he may regret his decision but he'll deal with that at the time. After a couple weeks, he contact me fairly happy and neutrally and offered to meet up.
I've been hanging around with people he knows and I've been told he gets angry if someone jokes about me or makes jokes about our relationship, whilst I expected him to laugh along. He also asked his new friend about me seeing this guy he knows/hates, so he's obviously aware of what I'm doing and it seems to bother him that I was seeing that guy.
We were together two years; he said I was something special, I was his soulmate/the one, he wanted to spend his life with me etc. We broke up because he said he wasn't ready for commitment (now he's in a relationship?), I think he knew how serious we were and he wanted to sleep with other girls as he'd only slept with me. He's done that and admitted the sex wasn't good, he's been using girls and they've been saying negative things about him so he hasn't got a good reputation right now.
We spoke about trying again in the future, when he feels ready for commitment. I spoke about that when we were last talking and he refused to acknowledge it.
I don't intend on contacting him any time soon, I've deleted his number too, but I'm wondering if you think he'll ever contact me again in the future. I'm not saying I'd try again with him, I'm dealing with the break up a lot better now and don't have the urge to contact him.
Do you think he's missing me or filling a void with that relationship? Do you think he'll contact me again in a few months?
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Sounds to me like he's made a big mistake and he knows it. I've been in a similar situation. He will come running back. Whether it's a month later or a year later he will and by that time I'm sure you will have moved on and be very happy. He made a wrong choice by letting you go1
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