So my boyfriend of two and a half years and I broke up but when we hang out it still feels like we're together ie cuddling, kissing, holding hands, his in depth conversations with me about his work and family and he'll do sweet things for me at times. This is all why I believe he's feelings are still there plus he tells me that he misses me and compliments me (of course with me asking though). When i mentioned going down to his parents on day he didn't tell me no or when I saw a vacation place on TV he agreed it would be nice to go there. When I made romantic gestures he never tried to stop me or set me straight.
When were together we always talked about houses and future plans although he always told me he wasn't ready yet. One time he even agreed with the fact that he'll be stuck with me forever lol
Recently I asked him how he would feel if we got back together and he's reply was that he didn't want to get back together now. What did he mean by "now"? Like he wants to get back together in the future? That's how I interpreted it but then I don't know how to take it.
He is a shy guy that is basically a homebody sometimes, I don't know if that matters at all but he is.
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He is not afraid of commitment. It could be because he is not interested in being in a relationship with you at this very moment. There could be some factors in his life as to why he cannot dedicate his time to you.
Don't try to over think his "now". Just remind yourself that he basically said "didn't want to get back together"...
My advice is to move on... you may find someone you'll probably like much better.0