I saw her recently and we ignored each other at first. I thought this was rather silly and immature. So, later in the evening, I approached her, asked how she was doing, I offered to buy her a drink (she declined as she already had one, but said I could buy her one later. Later never came as she and I spend the rest of the evening with our respective friends), and I told her that I thought she looked great (she replied by saying the same to me).
Was all this too much? I don't want to be the creepy ex-boyfriend, but I think ignoring is petty.
Would you ladies prefer that an ex (especially an ex that broke up with you) leave you alone completely, wave a hello, or make brief, polite conversation
What makes things even more awkward is that we are in the same church community and have a mutual friend in common.
Ladies, thanks for your thoughts.
Perhaps offering to buy a drink was a bit much. Her birthday was coming up and I wanted to acknowledge that. But, considering I broke up with her last her before bday maybe not. But, I did offer and she was not rude.
Is it even more painful when a guy dumps a woman, especially if the woman is attractive and used to the one doing the dumping. This was the case with my ex.
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I hate when mine contacts me, it's either to humilate me or laugh at me with another female to call me names like ugly and rubbish in bed etc .
But you seem different to him nothing wrong in casually talking to someone it's only creepy if you do as I've described above0