My ex was dissatisfied with our relationship, despite most of it being all good. I found out she was cheating on me by going to get this guy's house and texting him sexual stuff. I've been out dating now (50+ dates), but not at all finding that connection I had like with my ex. The relationship is well over with her and the cheating was pretty much in spite (I think). In my mind, I don't want anyone like that... but given I wonder everyone's take on if it pretty much disintegrates the relationship
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This may sound wrong, but a man will never be able to forgive a woman for cheating but a woman will forgive a man for cheating.
Men are territorial by nature. They have a way of separating sex from emotions. Women are emotional by nature. Trust is besides the point, biologically speaking, a man will never be the same with a woman who has cheated on him. It makes him feel less than. If you really do love her, you may forgive her, but you will slowly start to realize that there was another man in her life aside from you and it will eat you up inside. You will continue to resent her and eventually when things get rough, you'll use it against her and you'd eventually cheat yourself. Two wrongs don't make a right. My advice? Leave now. Tell her that you need time. Trust is a HUGE aspect in any relationship. Both of you will end up hurt.1
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