I'm afraid my best friends will hate me and don't want to be my friend again
I'm afraid my boyfriend won't be my best friends again if I end our relationship
I'm afraid of hurting all of them.
Please Help Me.
Most Helpful Girl
The way I see it, UnknownGurl, the Only One who is getting Hurt is You and everyone else is being satisfied because you are the One who is suffering in silence.
You need to be this Honest John and not let this little charade be carried forth any longer. You need to sit your One half down and tell him straight out that you are Not ready for a Real Relationship and end the madness.
You don't Owe Anyone else here, dear, including the Other side in the picture an explanation. When they would found out that it is over with you and him, they will either stick by your side as true blue friends till the end or end up.. fair weather friends with lame duck excuses for not wanting to get their own feet wet because they are mad hens after the storm has withered away.
Good luck. xx1