my ex fiance left me for another guy and took my kid now I'm getting a lot of mixed signals from her I don't know what to do she's telling me she loves me that she misses me and she dreams about me she wants to have these long hugs talk on the phone text that names the whole nine by the end of the day she goes back to this guy and when I asked her she just tells me that she wants to be together just not right now this is taking its toll on me because I found out about it I wasn't told it only happened a couple of days after my birthday so this was beyond devastating almost 4 years together and our two year old daughter its horrible that I had to end like this please help me figure out why she's trying to drag this on if she wants to make it work I'm more than willing I do love her and I want more than anything to have my family back together but she just won't come back I really like some opinions from females as to what she's trying to pull if she's playing mind games or she's reaching out to me and try to tell me something or she just being an ass please let me know
What is she trying to pull if she's playing mind games or she's reaching out to me and try to tell me something or she just being an ass?
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if she wanted to go back she would've done it already dude...
so, try to take things slowly.. move on and just talk to her if she talks to you.0
You're her second choise she prefer the other one. I think you're soft to her bc you accept her to back to you while she have the other guy. Also you accept to left you with you kid in her mind you're not strong enough the other one maybe more strict than you or he's more alpha than you. Stop be like a toy she can't back anytime she want and go anytime she want you're not her damn toy. Be strict and I really don know why you need this girl if she lefted you already for somoneelse kinda disrespect. However dont act like toy0
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