My my now ex and I broke up over a month ago because he became unhappy he said. So he needed space and said maybe in the future things could change, but he isn't happy and it's too much work. A couple weeks later he hit me up and came over and we spoke and hung out and he said he missed me a lot and we agreed we would both talk and try to sre where it goes and if we can work it out... So we slept together. He came over a few days later and we had more tell about a future. Same thing happened... He even came over after work to help with some papers I had to do and joked with me about "his other girlfriends on the side" and said he loved me. Then after that he backed away and kinda stopped talking to me. Ignored me. We were supposed to hangout but I blew him off because the day before when I asked him to help me cause no else could cause my tire was going flat he refused to and said no cause he was going to go out with friends... So no he said. So I was upset and he didn't bother to ask me till late the next day what happened. So I told him I was upset two days later with him face to face. And hurt and standing there telling him you basically said we were trying to work things out but instead you ignore and then don't come when I need you. I was like do you even wanna be with me he said I don't know... Then he was really nice when I said bye and took out dog to the park... Then ignored me again. I hadn't heard from and I didn't contact him cause I was also trying to give some space. Well I asked and he told me he was talking to an old friend who was a girl who didn't live anywhere in the same state or close to our state... And I said so are we done then he said I don't know... So I stopped talking to him cause I was hurt and needed space... Well I found out I was pregnant, it's still very early and I told him he seemed chill about it. I saw him the next day and he was like I can't do this, I don't want thi
So how do I get over someone I am still so in love with? I wanted to spend my life him. Saw him as my soulmate. Can he ever fall back in love with me? Is there ever hope in the future? Has anyone had this happen and later get back with someone who said they didn't feel the same anymore?
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He seems to be confused in what he really wants. Since you did tell him you're pregnant very shocked he's not freaking out about it at all. You need space and I know it hurts because I'm still in the same spot as you, still have feelings for my ex and I can say just hang with friends and keep a good positive outlook at things. Get your mind off things is one good thing if you can do that. If you both do share bills and what not its better if you ask him to do it asap because unless he's helping you with the pregnancy or anything it will get harder for you0