I broke it off last week with my now ex boyfriend of 3 months. It was out of emotions, I then deleted him off of my social media hastily. The next day, I apologized but he wouldn't take me back anymore. it's surprising that he gave up that easily.
He responded witha calm, and respectful message as to why he can't take that risk again. I didn't message him after that until yesterday, with a heartfelt message and how I want him to be part of my graduation next week, if he still cares that is and that I really want to work it out.
24 hours has passed, and he never responded. How could he just disappear like that. He didn't even try to fight for us. I don't get it. People tell me to give him more time, and when my graduation comes then I will really know if he cared or not but it looks like a blur.
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You seem to be focusing specifically on you, on how his presence affects you. I won't speculate on how serious things got, or what led to the break, but it sounds like you closed the door on him with a resounding slam. Even if you changed your mind the very next day, guys don't forget something like that, and once bitten, twice shy. You're putting him through a wringer. You want him at your graduation now, but what guarantees does he have that you care beyond that? How does he know you won't do that to him again?2