He responded with a calm, and respectful message as to why he can't take that risk again. I didn't message him after that until yesterday, with a heartfelt message and how I want him to be part of my graduation next week, if he still cares that is, and that I really want to work it out.
more than 24 hours has passed, and he never responded. How could he just disappear like that. He didn't even try to fight for us. I don't get it. People tell me to give him more time, and when my graduation comes then I will really know if he cared or not but it looks like a blur.
He has completely disappeared on me. Some people tell me to give him more time. I hope he will come around.
Most Helpful Guy
Although an apology is respectable, it doesn't guarantee people will be open to you going fwd. I'm afraid you need to just learn from this situation.
He responded in clear tone and established boundaries going fwd. The relationship is over. You need to respect his space and learn from your mistake
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, from experience, if you already explained yourself to him and apologize and he doesn't react, the best thing is to let him be. Guys dont take rejections and break ups lightly, especially if he truly cared about you. He probably just need time to think. Give him some time. If he shows up, great. If he doesn't, dont take it to heart. were all humans and we make mistakes.