So this Girl and I have had some history together. Things got pretty serious and one day she told me she was seeing someone else. I basically told her I couldn't be friends with her and we cut contact with each other. I sort of came to the conclusion she might have been using me as an ego boost, confidence builder as she said she had feelings for me, but would act reluctant to date me. She said she was scared things would work out too well
Fast forward 6 months, she gets in contact with me "just to a see how I'm doing" we spoke for a bit, she brought up that she can't count how many times this new guy has treated her so badly and wanted to leave. I told her where I stand by saying I still can't be friends with her, as it's not what I want. We've stopped talking again but she's added me on Facebook.
My question is, do I need to contact her one last time and tell her that things need to end completely between us? I still feel very strongly for her, but I don't think the feeling is mutual.
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The minute you make contact again it opens up the lines of communication. If you choose to do that then you are setting yourself up to be 2nd choice. Do you really want to be this girls fill in or fall back because things went wrong with this other guy?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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