So this Girl and I have had some history together. Things got pretty serious and one day she told me she was seeing someone else. I basically told her I couldn't be friends with her and we cut contact with each other. I sort of came to the conclusion she might have been using me as an ego boost, confidence builder as she said she had feelings for me, but would act reluctant to date me. She said she was scared things would work out too well
Fast forward 6 months, she gets in contact with me "just to a see how I'm doing" we spoke for a bit, she brought up that she can't count how many times this new guy has treated her so badly and wanted to leave. I told her where I stand by saying I still can't be friends with her, as it's not what I want. We've stopped talking again but she's added me on Facebook.
My question is, do I need to contact her one last time and tell her that things need to end completely between us? I still feel very strongly for her, but I don't think the feeling is mutual.
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I think she must've fallen for you at some point but the other guy got in the way like maybe he was there first or charmed her with money/appearances... either way, she realized too late she went for him for the wrong reasons and he didn't treat her well and that's probably when she realized she actually liked you this whole time. Love works out kinda funny that way; you don't realize it until it's too late and the person's gone. But I wouldn't end it between her because she said she had feelings for you and girls usually don't make that stuff up. Chances are, she was confused, immature, and not ready for commitment and made a mistake... If she is more mature and ready for a serious relationship, you should reconsider breaking it off completely with her, especially since you still feel strongly for her.0