My friends with benefits moved 5 hours away from me. I really miss the sex but I am starting to miss him more now. why does it feel like I just got out of a relationship? and why does it feel harder to move on? I really can't see myself having sex with anybody else besides him. He told me if I visit his town I should hit him up. I don't know if I should move on or just continue to hook up with him every once in a while. I want the friends with benefits relationship to be consistent. Am I wrong for wanting a consistent friends with benefits relationship?
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Gee, haven't seen this happen before on GaG...
It feels like you got out of a relationship because that's exactly what you did, only you never communicated enough to define what it was that you had. People really should not get in friends with benefits arrangements. Someone always gets attached and is left pining after the other person. It never ends well. For your own sake, for future reference, either make things official if you're dealing with someone you'll see on a regular basis or keep it in your pants. At least with an official relationship you'd have a defined start and end, not an open-ended termination that leaves both parties a confused mess.