After my boyfriend of 3.5 years decided he wanted to be single for a while, we hung out a few times at his request but I told him that I couldn't see him for a while because it was too hurtful. I haven't had any contact with him in a month now and decided it was time to get in contact with him as I have had some time to myself and am less emotional. I called him 2 days ago and got his voice mail. I left a friendly and short message just saying to call me back. It's been two days and no return call. I miss him so much. What are the chances he is with someone else already? I'm ready to be his friend and possibly rekindle our love if things go well. Should I try him again in a few days?