Why pursue someone for 18 months actively seek them out to just use them for sex? I asked a few times will you go out with me and be my boyfriend? his reply 'I'll need to see you a few more times'. It wasn't just a hookup or Id have run a mile, the fact he spent over a year to be with me made me feel like I was special, so to be told I was just a 'fucktoy' broke my heart to pieces. I have no trust in men now whatsoever.
I've seen him about town few times once with another woman and I wanted to scream why not me, why couldn't you be proud to take me out and call me your girlfriend? I feel dirty and don't even know why be bothered for all those months to do that to me.
i wish someone could explain what was so wrong with me that he was ashamed of me?
Most Helpful Guy
He's a player and you fell into his trap, that's all. I can almost guarantee there is nothing wrong with you, the only thing I advise is wait until after a few dates before you sleep with the next guy you date. Do not use that crap about all men being the same, most men are decent, you always will have rotten eggs that spoil it for the rest.0
Most Helpful Girl
there's nothing wrong with you except for the fact that you've entertained this guy this many times. he knew what he was doing, and you did everything he wanted you to do. you saw the red flags and fell for them. move on from this guy, he's a user and a loser. a guy who is truly interested would never do this.0