We met and fell in love fast and got pregnant even faster. Had a beautiful baby girl a little before our 1yr (Sept 14'). In March (15') I purposed to her. I was so excited and gitty just thinking of how happy she would be.
Found out from a very close source to her that she had cheated on my after her Christmas party (dec 14') with I guy I had always questioned and she told me nothing was happening, and even made me feel like shit for not believing her... worst part is, she did it before I even suspected the guy and did after I gave her the ring.
Now, she is fucked up in the head right now, I don't mean that as a joke. She seeing a therapists and working on herself. I fell like postpartum played a huge roll. She pulled a 180 once our daughter came home, reality is scary, but she handled the stresses very poorly. I believe this guy was an escape pod, could have been anyone, as long as she felt like she was escaping her world.
Now, I do want to work past this I am in love with everything about her, but who she really is, not this mask she's currently wearing. Not just because of my daughter, that would be noble, but wrong. However, the ring now represents something so meaningless that she could do this, to me, even if it did work out... we would have to date and she would have to earn a new one, one with meaning that isn't associated with that past. Is that wrong to thing "IF" she fixes herself and I take her back?
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The ring is a symbol. That symbol is now tarnished. I would return it.
I also recommend a DNA test on your daughter to make sure she is yours.2