We have been together for just over a year and a half, and everything has been perfect. About a month ago he said that he feels like things are changing and he isn't as in love as he used to be. I tried my best to make everything work but he has just made it harder on me by not trying at all. We broke up a week ago, and it was a mutual decission because we were both not happy with the situation. Does anyone know how could I get back together with him or has any tips
Thank you so much for all of the answers!
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Honestly. Do not push him, that will only make things worse. I have been in this situation before, twice. Some guys either get afraid being in a situation that's too comfortable, some guys don't want to settle down at such a young age (my ex was this way), some guys just get bored of a repetitive relationship (if that's the case). Give him space, but ask to hang out once in a while. Don't talk about your relationship and how you miss it and want to fix it, that stresses him out. If he agrees to spending time with you, than he still cares about you. So just let it flow. Be the best you can be for yourself, be strong and happy and beautiful. He will notice that vibe and normally that vibe is what pulls them back in. But don't be impatient and don't be needy or pushy. It may take a few months. He may start seeing other girls. My ex and I got back together after we dated other people and he was the one to come back to me. We've been on and off since then until about four years ago when I went to school and eventually met the man I'm with now. But even my boyfriend of four years has had doubts, I've had doubts, it happens. But just take a step back, regroup yourself. Play it cool and see where it takes you. He'll keep you at arms reach If he still cares, just be careful not to mix this up with him using you sexually or whatnot.2
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