I haven't called him in a week now but I'm dying to talk to him. I'm trying to make it as long as possible, I take it one day at a time. But I still have this shred or hope that he's going to call me and that eventually he will want me back. I'm treating it as temporary even though it's probably permanent. I'm scared to accept it because I don't know if I can handle that emotional destruction right now or maybe ever. I'm scared of how much it will crush me. How do I accept this as totally, completely, 100%, no turning back, over?
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Firstly realize that millions of people worldwide if not billions have had to undergo the devestating situation of a break up. Very very few people are lucky enough to have met their soulmate on the first go or first relationship. It's a common thing that hits all of us at some stage and even though it doesn't lessen the pain it helps you realize you are not alone and millions have survived a break up and made it. Which leads me to my next point..
You will be OK without him. Yes it might feel impossible but I can assure you that you can handle it and you will get through it. There is no reason to believe that he is the right guy for you and that you are supposed to be with him. Things like this happen to pull you away from the wrong person so you can meet the right person. The right person will not dump you or detach themselves from you. So when this does happen you must trust that the universe knows what it is doing and that everything will work out the way it should but that sometimes requires painful sacrifices that we don't understand right now but in time when the bigger picture is there it will all add up.
You are a beautiful person inside and out. Do not let ONE human being keep you from living a life. Place him down from that pedestal. He is not everything you likely make him out to be in your head. We usually fall for the idea of someone or something and not the actual person. Although it is easy to confuse the two.
Hang in there and message me if you want moral support or someone to talk to :)1