- stay and wait
- leave and go
Most Helpful Guy
I'd insist she not cheat. I'd also ask for regular checkups and feedback from staff to ensure she wasn't raped or anything. I'd expect regular feedback from her. I'd want to visit her frequently.
It's not the shame of what she did I'd fear most; but the logistics of staying in touch and not losing her to the system. She won't be the same as when she went in. Can I love her when I don't even know her anymore?
Most Helpful Girl
That's one of those situations where I think I would break it off and leave the options open to get back together later. However, if the relationship was already headed south, I don't think I'd try too hard to resuscitate it.