I don't know he didn't show you that he loved you and hurt you in the past. No compassion. Would you distant yourself a bit hoping he would change and chase you?
If you didn't think your boyfriend loved or put enough effort in would you become distant hoping he would chase?
What Girls Said 5
Yeah. Sometimes I do that, not only with past relationship, but also with friends. If I was hurt and often neglected I tend to distant myself hoping tthey'll realize what they've been doing wrong and with the hope that they would give more time, effort, and attention to me.0
I acted distant for a week after telling him i needed the effort a month prior. So I dumped him. Really cared about him (still do) and it could have worked out but he didn't see the value in putting in effort (communicating) so I did us both a favor. It's not fair for only one person to be willing to put in effort and the other person to not care.0
Sometimes, yes. If I'm feeling a tad neglected, I'll give him an opportunity to miss me.0
Yes probably my husband does this to me all the time its sad so I act like I don't care either0
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