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Honestly, it's a 50/50 shot on whether he comes back after he "finds" himself. It will just depend on too many things and no one can see or predict the future. The best thing that you can do is to live your own life at this point. If you two will truly being going no contact, then you need to just consider you and him done permanently and live your life that way. If he jumped into dating someone else a few weeks after you broke up, it seems like he might be the kind of guy who needs someone around, as a girlfriend. So, keeping in contact with him in any way will just make him not take the time he needs and get back with you because he seems like he might be the kind of guy who needs a girl. And then he's just with you to be with someone, you know? Also, if he is the kind of guy that needs to have someone around, you need to be prepared for the fact that though he may have the best of intentions now to stay single and find himself, don't be surprised if he does find someone else. That's why you cannot sit around and wait in regards to your life. There is no guarantee he will come back, so you just have to do you and if he does come back, and you still want him/are not dating anyone, etc, then you'll have to make the decision whether to give it a shot or not. It's sad that he waited all this time to bring all this up to you, just cutting open wounds that were probably healing by now since Christmas? Good luck to you, take care!