I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We were engaged, but I broke it off as I felt too young to get married. Recently our relationship became more rocky and after a fight, he found comfort in another girl's arms. I was devastated to find this out. Of course he says he is sorry, but he doesn't want to break off contact with this girl even though I begged him to. So now I'm trying the no contact rule, but I'm so scared it will drive him back into her arms and I can't bear the thought off that!! I am very hurt, but deep in my heart I still believe he is my true love... So do you think he deserves another chance? Right now I'm desperate for any advice!! Is no contact my best option?
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I mean, you cut him loose, you know? He had a right to do that. And I know VERY well how it feels to see the person you love with another person, but in all reality that's his business. It seems as though you guys are getting back together or in the process of that, in which case, yes. He would need to cut contact with her. Maybe he sees you as a flight risk?0