A couple of days ago, my boyfriend received some messages from a random # tellling him to look this guy up because I wasn't being honest. I also received a message from the same # telling me I had to tell my boyfriend about my dishonesty (my texting the other guy) or he would find out from them. My boyfriend and I talked about it, I told him about this guy and how he is trying to persuade me and we agreed we were going to get past it. I made the horrible mistake of texting this guy back the next day and the conversation was flirty (i have hooked up with this guy in the past many times). I knew this was going to come back to me (I self-sabotage myself all the time and I don't know why!) anyway the boyfriend saw his messages on my ipad (i deleted the conversation from my phone).
The messages are mixed, one day I tell him to leave me alone because I love my boyfriend and he swears he won't mess it up for me and the next he's sending me naked pics and asking to meet up. I think this guy wants me to break up with my boyfriend and I am falling for his crap, he's never wanted a relationship with me, just hooking up, my boyfriend is very hurt and I don't want to lose him. He's my best friend and i love him, advice?
Most Helpful Guy
Aside from you being an obvious attention whore that deserves to be dumped, the interesting part of your story if this third party # that texted your boyfriend warning him of your despicable actions.
Despite knowing it was wrong you kept texting this guy, despite him sending nude pics, which makes his intentions clearly obvious, you STILL talk to the guy. In my eyes there is no repairing the relationship, if this happened to me I would see you only want attention and would dump your pathetic ass. You say you already have a boyfriend you love then you go about talking to some other guy. Clearly you have no love or respect for your boyfriend, you're in love with the notion of being in love with him.
Most Helpful Girl
Buy some will power and atone your sins by wiping this guy off the earth and treating your boyfriend extra better. Treat him like a King. Tell the other guy to FUCk off.