Say someone commits to u for 5 years but because ur confused and curious u leave them at the cost of their broken heart and emotional issues? I know it'd not illegal but I've recently cme to realize it may be morally wrong.
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It is wrong, in a sense that you have technically wasted 5 precious years of someone's life, but I believe that regardless of how someone else feels for you, you shouldn't stay with them if you don't feel the same way. This is a risk for you though because you may never find anyone like that again, and you may not be able to return to them. My best friend went through a somewhat similar situation. His boyfriend is 30 and he just turned 20. His boyfriend (lets call him Joe and my best friend rick) just started dating men after having only 1 girlfriend prior. Rick just got out of a terrible relationship of 5 months (his longest before joe). they both committed to eachother rather quickly (like marriage plans on the 4th date). after about 6 months joe thought there might be someone else out there for him, but he also really loves rick, they ended up staying together but after a few more months rick started to feel the same way (he is barely 20 and already settling down!), but again they decided to stay together. I don't see how that was beneficial to either of them. honestly you only live once and why would you want to spend it with someone while the whole time thinking there might be something better. If you were my boyfriend I would want you to go resolve these feelings even if it hurt me (obviously I would want to be with someone whose feelings for me are sure fire.) i dont know if any of this makes sense, but I'm just trying to help you see your situation from different sides.0