Most Helpful Guy
Lol id say fuck you. You left your boyfriend for another guy don't expect him to be waiting for you.
Most Helpful Girl
I can understand wholeheartedly what you mean here, lucygirl988, when you talk about the "Grass looks greener on the other side" because many times it backfires on you and it... isn't as green on the other side of the fence.
I still have a husband out in Egypt whom I married three years ago. I came back to the states and for some reason or another, I ended up having arelationship with a Coptic Christian because I thought he was closer, could be closer to my heart and that this was the answer to my prayer in getting rid of a LDR... even being married.
I found out within a year that everything I worked so hard in having with my husband was going down the drain and even though we had some problems with him and his family when I had lived there, I now ruined every chance of them ever trusting and believing in me again... to this day, they will not talk to me and my husband is ready to divorce me.
Even if you and your Ex never get back together, don't stay with someone you don't think you will ever be happy with. You are Obviously Not over the Other half and this one is Obviously a Rebound whom you thought was everything your Better half ended up to be after all.
You are Not over him and it may take a lifetime. It might be best to just be your own woman for now, get your thoughts in order and back off in the relationship you are in or it will end up going down a beaten path and end up a War of the Roses.
I believe that if you were free to be your own boss once more, you could be friends with not just with the Ex but with anyone and it might make it easier to see where you are going and what is going to be in the cards next for you. For now, it's not fair to your current cutie and not fair to you.
Good luck. xx