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In this case, where you both were already broke up, Andrea_Lilly_, you were Cheated. And of course he may have been Cheating on you when you were together, maybe not, but either way, he is a loser.
Think of everything he has done to make you feel this way. After awhile you will begin to forget because... he made it so easy.
Good luck. xx0