What do you do when you are not sure about your choose?

hi , today, in fact, just some hours ago , i said goodbye forever to a girl that i really really love her and care about her. we met online and i really wanted her , i wanted to see her, in real life, and date to her, but she said she just see me as friend, anyway i kept talking to her almost one year, and she just sometimes changed like she said she miss me, or love me or something like that but still she didn't want to see me in real world, out of the internet, maybe she scared everything get wrong, i dont know, but its kind of did hurt me like i always be online for her and she not be here for long time, and when she came and i ask her why she wasn't here, she just say she is busy, so i dont know if i did right thing or not, but i said goodbye to her forever, some part of me say it was good choose, but another part say heey maybe you could keep talking making she be in love with you and be your girlfriend, but in other hand i dont think time is gonna to change anything, anyway i still like ted in "how i met your mother" , i still feel like maybe i could change with talking more to her, maybe i dont know i could make she come , in out of internet, maybe i could stay even when its hurts me, maybe i could change everything, i dont know, i know i will miss her too much but i am not sure if it was ture choose to leave her, and right now i am kind of without hope for future and so sad, a, full up doubts about what i have done, about leaving her, i dont know it was good or true choose to leave her or not,
thanks for answering


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  • Love hurts sometimes even if it is online... letting her go completely forever seems it may be best, in this situation...

    • i just i know i miss her, like right now i so miss her a lot...

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    • MAKING peace within yourself to let her go. Even if that means telling her and then being on your way. Just don't end it bad

    • Thank you so much for MHO hun. Hope things are getting on better for you

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