I was seeing this woman for two months over a year ago. I ended it because neither of us was ready for a relationship. She was relapsing with depression. She took it horribly and would have panic attacks accusing me of only wanting her for sex. I was insulted. We had a mutual friend and I started having feelings for her. Scarlett had been Caras friend for 14 years. this happened 3 months after. I told cara about it and she flipped. She told me her friend was a bitch and was manipulative. I blocked cara after. Months later cara comes up to me and tells me she is sorry. She told me she was never mad at me but at herself for having depression, not being able to beat it and for pushing me away. She said the insults were not at me but at her. She saw herself as worthless and thought only a bad guy could like her. She had inflammation in her head which is why she never fully recovered. She's different now. Should I forgive her? What now?
Most Helpful Guy
guess u should... seems like she feels bad about herself... so u should try to make her feel more comfortable :)1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
No I don't think you should respond. You should wish this woman well but it is not your responsibility to take her abuse and you shouldn't agree to her bringing you down. Fair enough you had feelings for her but you should look for someone that is stable mentally and knows what they are doing.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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