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I had a crush on a girl in high school and I was too awkward to know what to do about it. I was like a dog chasing a car: what's the dog gonna do if he actually catches the car? I don't think she was interested in me, anyway. When she moved on, I was heartbroken. She is married and still lives where I live. I haven't seen her in many years but I occasionally drive by her house hoping to catch a glimpse of her. I am not obsessed or stalking her or anything crazy, but. . . You never forget your first crush.
You may never forget this girl but, as much as you hurt now, you will gradually feel better. One day, you will find yourself looking at another girl, and then you'll be talking to her, and you will realize that life goes on.
It's okay to feel sad for some time, but don't let the sadness control your life. When you are tired of feeling sad, tell that sadness to get lost so you can get on with your life.