I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years. He was my best friend who I told everything to. And honesty is my #1 rule. But I went away to college, and just finished my 2nd year. I'm home for the summer, and I just found out over the past 2 years he hid things from me. Such as, smoking weed with my younger brother, hanging out with girls, (one sent him nudes), and just small things that I know don't matter (if he would have told me up front)... but now I feel like I can't trust him. I told him everything.. and I thought it was a 2-way road. But he was "afraid" to tell me.
Do I stay with someone who doesn't tell me things? I don't think I can... :/
- Yes, stay with himVote A
- No, time to end itVote B
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Sometimes guys hide these things because they think their girlfriend will be upset. Don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to excuse him for not being up-front with you but you have to ask yourself if it's worth breaking up over. Is he an otherwise good boyfriend? If so, I think you should have a serious talk with him about your thoughts on the subject and find some common ground.0
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