its nearing the one year anniversary of our breakup which was also very painful and hurtful at the time. i think the whole thing bothers me more cause i had put a lot more effort into that girl and she was someone i had wanted to date for a while so it was very difficult to see everything fall apart. i don't know why the anniversary really matters if it matters at all i think it just serves as a reminder to me that things fell apart and that we are not together and that she is with someone else , i'm just finding the whole thing hard to deal with but realise i need to put the whole episode behind once and for all
Most Helpful Girl
Don't feel bad..
I oddly got the same feeling recently from a breakup anniversary. Things fell apart badly..
It was hard at first but then
I was totally fine for months barely thought of him, didn't check his social media or anything.. The one year mark hit and the sudden urge to check up on him, I found myself falling into old habits thinking of him
It's just a strange feeling knowing that there's a person out there who you're so compatible with and spent so much time getting to know and now you just have to walk past each other like strangers...
Just enjoy summer, hang out with some friends , have a beer, work-class etc-- stay busy
Buy yourself something nice
Accept that she's with someone else and start dreaming about who your next love will be...0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
gosh... if u have anniversaries.. i assume there still might b a chance to get back together!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE