its nearing the one year anniversary of our breakup which was also very painful and hurtful at the time. i think the whole thing bothers me more cause i had put a lot more effort into that girl and she was someone i had wanted to date for a while so it was very difficult to see everything fall apart. i don't know why the anniversary really matters if it matters at all i think it just serves as a reminder to me that things fell apart and that we are not together and that she is with someone else , i'm just finding the whole thing hard to deal with but realise i need to put the whole episode behind once and for all
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As someone who went through the same thing, I know nothing I can tell you will make you feel any better. So just stay strong, be patient... it will all go away with time.
I was a 10 year relationship, I was in love and the break up was messy. My life fell apart, I lost everything, even the will to live. But I fought back, I kept busy, I got out of my comfort zone and tried new things, met new people. It took me about two years to move on, some people take more. I know this means nothing, but it's just a reminder that life really does turn around.0