I dated this girl for nearly 3 years when she broke up with my last year because she said she didn't have feelings for me anymore. She resented me because I didn't treat her the way a boyfriend should treat his girlfriend, now granted, it was my 1st relationship, we were long disance for over half of it, so it was rough on both of us but I thought we were great together and I loved her like crazy. Anyways, we kept hanging out and kept in touch because like an idiot I thought it would get her back to me. Didn't work. She started seeing some other guy and I told her that I can't do friendship with her because I was still in love with her and it wasn't fair to me. I said give me a call if things didn't work out between them but otherwise this was goodbye. I didn't hear from her at all over the next month. After about a month she starts texting me and calling me again randomly, saying she wants to meet for coffee, but she's busy that week so shed like to do it the next week. Next week comes along and she asks if I wanted to go for that coffee, but I was sick so I couldnt. After I felt better I gave her a call and asked out for coffee, but apparently she had already changed her mind and said she didn't want to meet right now becaus she didn't want to give me the wrong idea (wtf? this was her idea all along). I know she is conflicted, but I told her I knew she was still dating the other guy (same guy from before), and that she hadn't mentioned him at all because she wanted to see me, but something has changed. What is it? She said she just didn't want to go through that pain with me again, she still resented me for ruining our relationship etc. In some kind of jealousy I was feeling, I just googled the guys name. Basically he has been posting on adult websites asking for pics to trade from people, asking for their messenger names, asking for videos of people drinking their own urine, talking about meeting up and pissing on people, and other weird fetishes.
Most Helpful Girl
If you tell her with proof, she will immediately think you only told her in order to get back with her, but this opinion could eventually change. If you tell her without proof, she will probably think that you thought up any old shit to split them up. You seem fairly involved, are you still trying to get her back?0
Most Helpful Guy
yes... but do u believe she'll believe u?0