So, my boyfriend and I were together for a year. Recently though we have been arguing a lot more. We both had finals, graduation, and figuring out future jobs and if we were going to move. In the end we both ended up staying in the same city :) now that things have calmed down, I still find myself irritated with him. When we were fighting, he would constantly ignore my texts and calls and "break up" with me daily. Yesterday though he told me that he was done with me because he wanted to hook up with a bunch of girls back home (he is from a different state). He told me that he was breaking up with me because he didn't wanna feel guilty cheating on me. I didn't cry, beg, or bargain like usually do. Instead I told him that I understood. He told me that in a month we could try talking again and see how things are. I really do love him. We've always had fun together and he is one of my best friends. My question is will this break work or is it a waste of time? I understand we had a rough 2 months, but I'm not sure if it permanently ruined us.
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He wants a free pass so he can go bang some other chicks and not feel guilty about it. Do you really want to be intimate again with somebody who treats you with such little respect? Don't you have any self-respect? Whatever it is that you're calling love. . . it ain't!
A long term relationship requires love, trust, and respect. We don't need to argue about the "love" issue because you don't have respect and you're fixin' to lose whatever trust you may have. Think about when you're 28 years old and you look back on these events. If you let him pull this crap and then you take him back. . . will you be proud of yourself because you did that? Or are you going to think "how could I have been that stupid?"0