Most Helpful Guy
He wants a free pass so he can go bang some other chicks and not feel guilty about it. Do you really want to be intimate again with somebody who treats you with such little respect? Don't you have any self-respect? Whatever it is that you're calling love. . . it ain't!
A long term relationship requires love, trust, and respect. We don't need to argue about the "love" issue because you don't have respect and you're fixin' to lose whatever trust you may have. Think about when you're 28 years old and you look back on these events. If you let him pull this crap and then you take him back. . . will you be proud of yourself because you did that? Or are you going to think "how could I have been that stupid?"0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't personally agree with the concept of "taking breaks." Do I believe people can get back together? Yeah, sometimes. But in general, if you feel the need to take a break from a relationship, you're not really doing it to help the relationship at all. You're doing it because you want to indulge in your own selfish desires but don't want to lose the benefits of the relationship. It doesn't make your boyfriend a bad person nor does it mean he doesn't care about you, but if the relationship ever gets to a point where both parties feel it needs to END, even if it's temporary... typically means it isn't going to work out. Going off and banging other girls isn't something you do when you want a relationship to work. Just leaving and coming back won't fix what the real issues were, so in all honesty, I don't see this working out.
Good luck nonetheless.0