How can one get over the trauma of one?
Also, if the abuser wants you back, how can you stay strong and keep them away and not feel some weird attachment to them due to the trauma?
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You have to find every way to keep that person out of your life. Block their number, turn any and all social media to private, hell if it's that bad get a restraining order. Removing them completely is really the only way to recover.
Getting over the abuse takes an insane amount of time and willpower. I've know women that have been there and the few that bounced back fully it took them a few years. The ones that didn't recover became neurotic messes with massive trust issues. Always remember what happened wasn't your fault and that you did not deserve any of it.0