My girlfriend and I are sitting on the beach watching the sunset. For this moment to be romantic we need to be cuddling, holding eachother, or one of us has to be leaning on the other while watching the sunset at the beach. If we are sitting apart or next t, then it is not that romantic for me. This is just how I am. We all have our own views on romance. This is mine so.
My girlfriend understands this, but she isn't willing to do this for me. She tells me she doesn't want to and when we came to a compromise, it was that we would do this once every five times that we have these kinds of moments. Once every five times is barely anything and I feel like she is basically saying she wants to do it at her convenience instead of putting an effort into making me happy.
This is a big part of a relationship for me and I can't be in a relationship in which I feel there is no romance. Should i just break up with her?
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no, I think you should discuss deeper about this relationship with her, I don't think it is just because "you're not feel romantic doing this". It is more than that. try to explain to her whatever you felt, and try working out some things. I think maybe you two should understand each other and try to do different thing/ things that both of you enjoy. Try to travel somewhere and see how. If still not working, then you can reconsider to break, i don't know.
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