My boyfriend of 3+ years and I broke up last night because he says he needs to work on himself and isn't sure he can do that with me right now. I'm so heartbroken because we are each other's best friend and care so deeply about each other. Last night he made it very clear that it had nothing to do with me and everything to do with him. I believe this and know this isn't about some other girl he may have lined up.
What I'm wondering is, how can I convince him that we can be together while he goes through this journey? I want to be his rock throughout this and part of his support system. How should this conversation go tonight when we meet? How do I make it about him and less about me?
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You have to tell him you really care for him, and understand his want to work on himself, but you still want to be there for him and be supportive! Be supportive! If you support him (unless he is very angry at you), he will likely support you back and keep you in the loop!0
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