I'm 123 lbs even and I'm 5'2". I carry my weight in more of a shapely way due to my height but I think my body looks good. I like it, it's not perfect but it's practical and easy to keep. But recently, a guy I was super interested in ended up completely breaking my heart.
We met online originally (on an online gaming site) and were talking, then we ended up meeting, becoming friends, etc. Anyway I admitted I like him and he said he liked me too, and I was so excited. But then we got into a conversation about if we dated, and he brought up the topic of my body. He said that my body "wasn't bad" but that he always saw himself with a "fit" girl. I asked him what he meant, because I do work out and such 3 days a week... and then he sent me a pic (below).
I don't know who that girl is, but needless to say... I don't look like that. I told him straight up that I liked my body and that I wasn't going to look that way, and he started going cold. He gave me a spiel of he liked a lot, but he didn't want to settle for someone who wasn't his ideal. I was totally heart broken and tore him a new asshole and said some super hurtful things, then stopped messaging him.
Now he's messaging me trying to apologize. I don't know what to do because now I am heartbroken and feel like shit. What should I do/say to this guy? Do I try to look like this "perfect girl" or do I move on? I was so taken with this guy but ugh... he made me feel like such shit!!
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If you would change and try to appease his view of the ideal girl then I would think you quickly would lose yourself on the way there.
He would probably always find something wrong with you whatever you did or looked like.1