My new boyfriend is going away for 3 days with his bestfriend. The big problem is which I only found out is that his best friend is a girl. They will be sharing the same room. I just don't believe you can have such a close relationship with the opposite sex without one of you developing feelings. Should I talk to him? I don't expect him to choose but I feel like walking away from the relationship because I hate feeling this insecure.
I really do like him but my head is all over the place now. Is there anyone that has been in this position that can give me advice?
- Talk to him about itVote A
- Break upVote B
- otherVote C
Most Helpful Guy
I would talk to him about it, but for me it would depend on how long they've been friends, and if they have a history together. If they are friends but used to date, that would be a bigger concern. If they have only been 'best friends' for a year or something, that's a concern. But if they've been friends for a decade, and have never hooked up before, they are most likely not going to hook up now. And if he was going to hook up with her now, there isn't anything that would stop him hooking up with her when he is at home either. A new friendship and he may simply not have had an opportunity. 5 years? 10 years? He would have had that opportunity already. What he did with that opportunity would be the key.0
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly I would of lost it the minute he send staying in the same room. I am the same as u, I don't believe that you can be so close to someone and have no sexual attraction. I would ask him to stop the friendship with her tbh. If he cares about you he will do it and if he doesn't just forget about him.0