I was in a relationship and during the process my sense of self worth was destroyed. In alit better than what I was but he did say some things that really hurt me. He would compare our iq level (apparently his is like 180 or something) and he would always compare me to a retarded child compared to him. He was also disappointed that I didn't have big boobs and he wasn't afraid to stare it... Those are just two examples but he said some things that I never thought anyone would say to me but he said it in a way where you don't blame him for saying it. The relationship is over and I am still hurt by some things he has done but I don't want to live like that. What's a good way to stop feeling worthless and even stop being angry at him for doing it and me for letting it get to me?
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My ex would treat me like I was stupid while I had the higher iq, she wasn't too far behind, but she was clever enough into making me trust her while she cheated. She demoted everything I was good at and told me that I was a cold person. The last part got me, because a cold person will manipulate and doesn't care for anyone else but themselves, I didn't know how much of my heart she had until she did the things she did and said. She tries to play off to everyone that it was mutual and clean, and it's hard not to let everyone know, she brought me to the church I volunteer at, and the only person she isn't a Christian to is me. I'm just focusing on me, bettering myself, and whenever there is someone needing my assistance I'll give them by best. Stay busy, they'll regret what they did or said and someone new and better will come along.3