I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 years. we were having problems him not communicating with me. He started going out more and staying at friends house. I was ok with it still a bit confuse cuz he never did that before. He kept texting this girl nonstop and when I approached him about it he just said they were friends and she had a boyfriend. It bothered me a bit but I let it go. A month ago he broke up with me and got with her a week later. And to top it off she is older than him and has a kid. We were even talking about marriage and moving out together at some point. What went wrong? Im left heartbroken while he's is having the time of his life with the other girl. He said he loves her and is the best thing that ever happen to him. Is it all an act? Was it just a safety net? Would he ever regret what he did and want me back?
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What? why would you want him back? you are only showing yourself disrespect if you do... he is a cheater and a liar... he was was obviously cheating on you with this girl then broke up with you to supposidly be with her... but he will probably cheat on her too once he's bored with her as well... this is how these type of people work... your not missing out on anything so you need to stop thinking about him and having a hold on you, non of it is your fault... the first sign of a cheater or just someone who wants to use you for sex is they don't communicate, they weren't intending to right from the start, yes it was a complete lie your time with him since he was planning to dump you as soon as he got bored of you, it's the sad reality of these types of guys... doubt he loves her or that it's the best thing that ever happened to him, i bet he says that to all girls... lol bet he even said that about you, don't believe this lying sack of shit and don't let him push you down to make you think your the problem, he is the problem and he knows it. I would cut communication from him and move on, he's not worth it.0