Most Helpful Guy
guess he has... although can u be sure he's not lying?
Most Helpful Girl
Look, if a guy cheated, there's a reason and if he cheated one, he's more likely to do it again. If you get back with him he knows you'll be passive about it and have a higher chance to do it again.
Being confused and pulling this stunt are two different things. If he was really confused, he would of told you right off the bat and not cheat. I know it hurts and I know it might be something you don't want to accept, but that's what happened. If you want to get back with him, that's on you but just know, if he did it once, he's likely to do it again.
I've been with a guy who cheated on me and I know where you're coming from. But doing anything with him any further will not help how you feel and it will not be any easier.