My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half years, I'm 27 and he's 25 years old, we had plans for our future together and all, he always said I was the love of his life and that I was his perfect woman. Until 3 weeks ago when I found out he had been cheating on me with this girl from work he met a couple of months ago (I believe the affair started about 2 weeks before I found out). He said that he loved me and that our relationship was the best thing that ever happened to him but he had screwed it up so he coudn't be with me anymore, he cried and said that it was all his fault, that I was perfect, ( I have never seen him cry before), and he also said that he needs to be alone right now, and I asked if he wanted to be with this other girl (who also has a boyfriend but right now he lives in another city ) and he said that he has feelings for her but doesn't know if it can work out. We have seen each other a couple of times after the break up and have ended up having sex, and he has been very sweet and we've had a great time but remain broken up. So what do you think? Does he still have feelings for me? Is he just confused? If he Likes this other girl why are they not together? Why do I still care about him if he broke my heart?
Most Helpful Guy
guess he has... although can u be sure he's not lying?0
Most Helpful Girl
Look, if a guy cheated, there's a reason and if he cheated one, he's more likely to do it again. If you get back with him he knows you'll be passive about it and have a higher chance to do it again.
Being confused and pulling this stunt are two different things. If he was really confused, he would of told you right off the bat and not cheat. I know it hurts and I know it might be something you don't want to accept, but that's what happened. If you want to get back with him, that's on you but just know, if he did it once, he's likely to do it again.
I've been with a guy who cheated on me and I know where you're coming from. But doing anything with him any further will not help how you feel and it will not be any easier.1