His birthday is today and I would love to wish him a happy birthday, but I know it wouldn't be okay. It would leave me enthusiastic for something that won't happen. He disappeared on me almost two months ago when his 1st child was born. Sent him a final letter a few days ago letting him know this was my last attempt at reaching him. I know he's read it and it hurts being ignored. I have nothing against his child. I'm glad he's taking care of her. I, mysellf, grew up without a dad so it makes me happy to see him looking after his. Doesn't change the fact that he obviously doesn't care about me. How can I forget about him?
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Its hard to move on, but if he is ignoring you to that extent, there is little chance to break past that, you just need to resolve to move past it and try to find someone who truly cares about you.
Obviously it is hard , but it is your heart, and only you can move it. Cry if you need to, talk to friends or family if you need to, there is no shame in it, Im a man but even i have felt that before, I have cried , and have had my friends and family help me through. So do what you need to do to come to terms with and , set a new goal in your life, look for what makes you happy, and hopefully love will fall into place naturally.0