My boyfriend and I went on a break April 9th after being together for a year and a half. We had a good relationship, it just got rocky towards the end and the break eventually led to a break up. We didn't talk for a month as of a couple days ago and things were so up in the air. When I tried to talk to him, I got some closure, and he made it clear he doesn't want to get back together. Does the pain heal and will I eventually not care about what he does anymore? I'm always stressed out about what he's doing... and I'm so done with feeling sick to my stomach. My mom and friends tell me I'll go through a roller coaster of emotions through this process though. Any tips on making the healing process faster?
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I know it is hard to get over someone especially someone who you were in a long term relationship with. The best thing is to find a hobby and find something that you enjoy doing. Also going out with friends helps! This will help you get perspective about everything. That's like I was broken up with by a girl who I loved but once you know that the other person does not feel the same way. The only thing you can do is to move on. You can keep thinking about them, but the only person it will hurt will be you. You can say what if I did this or that. It does not matter, what I was told is that you can never get someone to love you if they do not want that. It is sad, but you will get over that person and find someone who is better than them. Just remember that if they are meant to be in your life then they will find there way back to you. I hope this helps, and good luck. I know it is easier said than done but in the end you will look back and laugh. I hope you are able to get over him, and be happy with your life!0
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