I'm seeing that my boyfriend and I are fighting more. It's has become that every week we are fighting about something over a misunderstanding, and we never really seem to talk it over after we are no longer angry. I keep telling him my concerns, and that I'm tired of trying to fit things for us, or having us talk. He starts a fight, and then calls me crazy for somehow making it more than what it is. I tell him my opinion on a question he asks, and tells me my opinion is stupid and shit. I find myself wanting to break up. And I always feel scared everyday that we're gunna have an argument. I don't know what to do. I know that he's an amazing person, but then sometimes I wonder if he really is. I'm just afraid of what I will feel afterward if I break up with him. I don't want to feel lonely, and I wanna see that he actually cares about this relationship. When we fight, he tells me that he's no longer gunna argue over it and then leaves me hanging at words; always copping out. I don't know, I'm just tired of it all. I just don't wanna see that he doesn't care.
Most Helpful Guy
yup... sounds like a jerk, and if u fight often better break up2
Most Helpful Girl
I was in the same situation, and we broke up this morning. I regret not making the first move.
I thought of breaking up with him when I noticed that he was making our relationship unhealthy, but I chose to suffer a bit longer because I was expecting us to be just fine afterwards. I should have broke it off before he did.
And you should too. Relationships aren't supposed to be all arguments. If he loves you, then he'll make an effort to get you back. The thing is, I don't know if this applies to all males but my ex told me this, you should let him miss you. Because if you make yourself too available, he'll take advantage.
And don't worry if you find out he doesn't care after you break up, that only means you did the right thing, and he's not worth your love. Someone out there deserves it better.
Be strong honey, no one can do it but you.0