I met my ex last summer & he said he didn't want a relationship bc he wanted to be a bachelor & party for the last year of college. I didn't think I wanted a relationship either so I was okay when he said it. We immediately started talking on the phone every night for 2 months. When I returned to school in the fall, we were still talking everyday & hanging out 2-3 times a week. I saw myself getting attached & asked him where this was going. He said that he still didn't want a relationship & was casually talking to a couple of other girls so I cut contact. 5 months later he came back & we started talking again but not as often for a few weeks. He bought up the conversation of what are we. He said that he viewed it as we were in a relationship & I was his girlfriend but he didn't want to put a title on it. I said that I wasn't going to act like his girlfriend & attempted to leave in which he decided to commit to me & be my boyfriend. We dated for a month & a half before my grades dropped from spending everyday with him & my mom made us go on a break when I came home from college. During the break he was talking to & seeing other girls which bothered me but everything was bc of my mom so I didn't have much say in it. When my mom said we could be together again he said that he didn't want to get back together until I came back to college in the fall & wanted to have the opportunity to be single for his final summer of college. I broke up with him & he tried getting back together with me saying that "he really wanted the opportunity to be single for the summer & be able to talk to other girls but if it would jeopardize us he would get back together with me then" I said no & that I wanted a guy who was completely invested in me. I was hurt because his reason for not wanting to get back with me this summer were the same as why he didn't want a relationship last summer. He was the first guy I did oral sex with & I feel like I wasted my time, should I tell him how I feel?
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you should tell him.0